So there is a female blogging conference coming up in a few weeks in Virginia. To promote it I was asked to write a post about the biggest lesson I’ve learned in my blogging…wow! That’s a big one….
There are a few. I think I have narrowed it down to these as the biggest:
1. Do your research.
Really… as silly as it sounds, it’s SO important. Try to think about what you might want from blogging even someday way down the line and use that to make some basic beginning decisions. If you might ever want to take on sponsors or do giveaways use WordPress.org or Blogger. I’ll admit I’m still not entirely certain of all the ins and outs… but I do know that the appeal of WordPress.com fades fast when you realize you’re not allowed to give presents away…
2. You don’t have to be perfect.
It’s really ok if you aren’t. People WANT to know how you did something and if you’re only an average DIYer- even better! Talk about your mistakes in a project, what you wish you would have known or done differently, etc.. It makes your audience feel more connected to you and encourages them to share and read through your post.
3. Don’t be afraid of humor.
Even if it’s snarky… I tend to write like I talk- with a bit of sarcasm and occasional jaded edge. I can’t really help it, I do hope I don’t offend too many… it’s who I am though, and so far people still seem to like me.
4. BE YOURSELF
Don’t try to be that blogger with the perfect house if you don’t have it. I’ll tell you- I don’t. I mean it, my house is a disaster area most days. I try to clean it up… and then everyone comes home. I’ve decided that I can be that stressed out woman who hates her family because she’s always picking up after them, or I can let some of it go and just enjoy them. I chose the latter…most of the time. I’m tired and they like me better this way. The odds of you really seeing posts about what my house really looks like are slim… some kind of Holiday House Tour… even less.
I will show you the insanity that is my garage (here or on my facebook page), because it’s who I am. It’s crazy and the furniture is piled HIGH, but some think it’s funny and friends beg me to “let them have a quick peek so they can laugh at me” Really.. I had a friend say that to me.
Tell people what you’re doing. You can grow your audience organically and of course you will do that too. What’s wrong with letting your friends and family help you too though? They might learn something fun about you, it might bring you closer together… but if not, what if you just get more readers.. because really… isn’t that why you probably started a blog in the first place?